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      “He who knows others    is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened.”
        Lao Tzu, Ancient Chinese Philosopher
Ever wonder why most people are dissatisfied with photos    of themselves? The reason is more than false modesty. We know our appearance    by the image we see in a mirror. However, the image seen by everyone else,    including a camera, is our actual image, rather than our reversed, mirrored reflection. 
      Remember all those terrible MySpace self-portraits? The    MySpace teens liked the photos, in part, because they showed the mirror image    of themselves which matched the adolescents’ self-images. 
Studies have confirmed this    phenomenon. People prefer photographs of themselves in which the negative has    been reversed and thus depicts the familiar view they see when they admire themselves    in a mirror. Even though we are most comfortable with this inverted image, it    is not how we are perceived by others.
      Our self-perceptions are similar to our reflections in a    mirror. We see a portion of who we are, but not our entire being. The lens by    which we evaluate our strengths, weaknesses, and priorities is limited. The    only way to obtain a complete understanding of ourselves and determine how we    can improve our performance is to seek and act upon the observations and    critiques of those we trust. 
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